Recently, a post titled "After eight years of marriage, I have not allowed my husband to touch me because I feel sick to my body" has caused a heated discussion on the Internet. In the original article, a netizen told about her troubles and secrets in her marriage, she admitted that she felt inferior and disgusting to her body, so she never dared to let her husband kiss her, and even cried secretly at night.
As soon as this post was released, it immediately attracted the attention and resonance of the majority of netizens, who left messages to cheer for her, and many people watched and left messages of comfort and advice, hoping that she could bravely face her troubles and seek appropriate help and solutions.
In fact, the troubles and secrets in marriage are not only the inferiority complex and disgusting faced by this netizen, but also many people in marriage, for various reasons, they will not be able to be honest with their other half of their inner troubles and secrets, and even choose to endure and hide them alone.
So, what is the reason why we can't be honest with each other in marriage, unable to accept our bodies, and how to face and solve such problems?
Regarding this netizen's troubles of not being able to let her husband kiss her in marriage, many people have left messages of comfort and advice, and many people think that this is because she feels inferior and disgusted with her body, so she has such thoughts.
Indeed, communication problems in marriage are likely to be one of the reasons for not being able to be honest with each other, no matter what kind of troubles and secrets, if the communication between husband and wife is not enough, it is difficult to have the courage and confidence to share the inner troubles with the other half.
Therefore, whether it is physical inferiority complex and nausea, or other troubles, both husband and wife should establish a good communication mechanism, learn to listen and understand each other's inner world, face and solve problems together, instead of choosing to escape and bear alone.
Of course, in addition to the communication problems in the marriage, there are many reasons why you can't be honest with each other, such as the physical inferiority complex and nausea that this netizen faces, but in fact, it is more important to accept yourself and build a sense of self-worth.
Everyone has their own unique body and appearance, and should learn to accept and appreciate their own imperfections, rather than being swayed by society's standards, resulting in feelings of inferiority and disgust.
When we can truly accept our own shortcomings and flaws, and learn to appreciate ourselves from the heart, we can build a healthy self
A sense of value is the courage and confidence to face and overcome various difficulties and challenges.
Of course, if you really can't get rid of your inner troubles, you can also seek psychological counseling and help appropriately, and help you re-examine yourself and establish a correct outlook on life and values through professional guidance and counseling.
In addition, the ideas and values of society are also likely to have an impact on individuals, especially for body image and perceptions, if we are affected one-sidedly and negatively for a long time, it is easy to have low self-esteem and disgusting emotions.
Therefore, it is essential to re-examine the concepts and values of society and establish correct aesthetics and sexual values in order to get rid of problems and rebuild self-confidence.
Whether it is family, friends or the media, they should give positive energy to help others establish a correct outlook on life and values, and they should also learn to respect and tolerate different bodies and sexual orientations, so that everyone can grow and progress in a healthy and positive environment.
Troubles and secrets in marriage often require courage and wisdom to face and solve, no matter what kind of troubles, you should not choose to escape and bear alone, but learn to be honest with each other and seek appropriate help and support.
At the same time, I also hope that everyone who is experiencing troubles can accept and appreciate themselves from the heart, believe that they have unlimited strength and possibilities, bravely face life, and bravely pursue true happiness and joy.
Only in this way can we create a beautiful and happy future in marriage.
